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hey so i definitely needed to talk about this cause way too many times mentionned my changing personality first we have the hihi daddy personality is it something i wish i could regain but is it cringe to me because i think theyr would make fun of me for being loving like "simping" but hhhharrrddd then we have my english character i created this character because of how oppressed i felt because of my own fear of judgement that came from air or maybe because of the girls that litteraly f***ed me mentally by leaving me all the time but i think ive had that forever because my dad used to be very closed so i was always like denying any crush or anything lik that i wanted to be the perfect child because it made them happy i still do i am gonna choose a nice paid job for my dad to feel fullfilled because i myself dont know what i want to do with my life so the english part when i start speaking english i feel like its safer because most of my close peopl wont understand its like protecting me from actual consequences and judgement and also i feel more myself but at the same who am i the french version or the english one i need to morph them somehow... then we have the i cant flirt in french well yes because i feel like they will make fun of me for what hdgbsjnqkldfjhgysh i dont know its very weird but reoccuring i think its karma nicer nicer nicer i am im scared to show myself for the same reasons like im also gonna do this theater thing to feel more confident hope it helps... i dont know if its because of the way i perceive myself like i see myself as ugly and not cute and i hate the way my body and clothes look on me like i image myself in 3rd view and i look ridiculous i am the one i fear the most i should be confident i think i kinda look pretty sometimes and when i dress confident i feel like im cute and hot sometimes i see that maybe not so much but who cares if i feel confident
i also feel like im no one i hold no important place in anyones life not even mine... i most of the tie dont matter thats why im afraid of people leaving me also i dont like being seen as lonely because of judgement again seen and not feel because i dont minf being alone i mind people thinking im alone.... this is all my fault...
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