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I recently got a new job and I really want to start growing my own plants. I find it somehow really theraputic to be able to grow and take care of plants but I never had any money to buy seeds for them. Now I do but I'm still not sure what I should get. I mean, there is the american snake plant which has been said to be a great starter for beginning your planting journey, but idk, i think I want to start of with a couple of common air-purfying plants and ones I need to water and mist daily just so I can get used to the routine. What do you guys think?-Keya

Hi guys, it's scene mom! Here's some of my rambling thoughts that no one f***ing asked for, in my best attempt to be helpful if any drama occurs moving forward. It makes very little sense!!!!! If you're struggling, feel free to message me. Otherwise, keep fighting the good fight and being excellent little freaks. The pattern some people on this site have of banding together to “cancel” problematic people has shown itself to me (an old f*** on the periphery of the drama) a few times, so I’ve tried to do my best to understand what is happening. I think I’ve found a pretty basic picture of the issue, and I wanted to provide some advice to everyone, for whatever that’s worth. This isn’t for any specific person. It doesn’t reference a specific incident. If you want this free advice, take it. If not, move on. I’m posting it here in this context because again, I am an adult. It would not be appropriate for me to insert myself into the drama when it happens. If it seemed like someone was in immediate danger, that would be a different story. For now, please bear with me as I try to organize and express my thoughts as best as I can. The SlursThe idea that there is a zero-tolerance policy on slurs among you guys, and there seems to be a united front committed to enforcing that is phenomenal. Especially when young people have such a reputation as being “edgy” and not giving a f***, you are proving that so wrong. I’ve seen people use problematic language here, and the process begins exactly as it should. Someone comes in to calmly and kindly inform the offender that their speech is problematic. Nine times out of ten, the offending person apologizes, acknowledges their wrong, and everyone moves on. This is the best possible outcome.What the offender does need to understand though, is that it is no one’s responsibility (particularly a member of the community who the language was damaging to) to educate them. It is not your responsibility to educate someone. It is a kindness to do it. It is a luxury to receive it. But it is not your job, especially in f***ing 2020 when everyone is literally carrying Google around in their pocket. What is also important for the offending person to understand is that their best, most sincere apology may not be good enough for someone. Everyone has their own story and their own baggage, and you are not entitled to someone’s space after you have offended or harmed them, even if you did not mean to. They are not responsible for your closure on the situation. Be better and move on. Bring your new knowledge and better self to someone else. Do not push someone who doesn’t want to talk to you anymore. They’ll get over it and come back when they’re ready, or they won’t.If you have the time and energy to provide background on WHY a slur or other statement is problematic, bless your heart. Make sure you are not speaking OVER a marginalized voice, and understand that you are making yourself responsible for providing facts, not your personal opinion.   The Trolls and The A**holesWhen someone says something wrong like a slur or a microaggression, and proceeds to double down or lash out when called out, my honest to god advice is to block and move on. I cannot stress this enough: do not feed the trolls. I don’t understand it, but there are some people in this world who just love pushing your buttons. Why the buttons they choose to push hardest are the ones attached to people advocating for kindness and equality, I wish I knew. I think it’s because they know that you care. The fact is though, nothing you say to a person like this will change their behavior. They are not going to debate with you (even if that’s what they tell you they want to do), they are going to try to tire you out, laugh at you, and then try to “catch” you when the inevitable verbal diarrhea causes you to say something they can flip around on you or take out of context. I know that tightness in your chest when you read someone’s post being a transphobic, ableist, sexist, racist, whatever-ist piece of sh*t. I know those hot pins and needles on your face. At least one person has openly admitted that they keep bringing sh*t up because they ENJOY making you feel this way. Stop giving them the satisfaction. The worst thing that could happen from them bringing it up again is to get zero reaction. That is truly how you win. Stop buying tickets to a show you don’t want to see.Some kids have told me that they feel responsible, like they need to step in and defend their friends. It’s so admirable, it is. But it’s an exhausting and ultimately futile effort. Block. Block. Block. Move on. Repeat if necessary. Yes, the trolls will carry on in their echo chamber but…so what? Maybe they’ll make new friends. Those new friends will see these people for who they are just like you did and make their own choices accordingly.It is a waste of your time. They are a waste of your time. Arguing with them is a waste of your time. That energy you have? It is special and it is powerful and you should take it off of the internet. Take it to your real world. You are not going to get through to some edgy, anti-PC teen on the internet. And also, I’m so so sorry to tell you this, but I am pushing 30 and I still see these people every single day. They don’t grow out of their troll caves. But the good news is that you don’t have to grow out of giving a sh*t either. However, if you spend too much time of your precious positive energy on internet trolls, you will burn out. You will have less drive and energy to effect real change in your own life, and the world around it.  The DramaI see some people saying that they can’t believe people are being so dramatic over a myspace clone. I hate to break it to you, but there was drama on Myspace too. Big drama. Full f***ing websites devoted to following it. One good example would be the saga of Kiki Kannibal. This Rolling Stone piece about it from 2011 is a wild ride. The easiest argument to get out of hand is an internet argument. I know you kids are all in group chats together. I know there’s zoom calls and all that sh*t, but there’s still that “just a face on a screen” element that depersonalizes not only the people we interact with online, but ourselves as well. It’s normal (and perfectly fine!) to have a persona online, or even just to choose to express only certain aspects of your personality. Sit back and remind yourself every now and then every single status, comment, photo, whatever, was made by a flesh and blood human being that is likely not *exactly* who you think they are. Not in a catfish time way, but in a “you don’t know what they may or may not be going through” way.  The Fear and The LineSome people have expressed concern over being “next” to be cancelled based on something they say or do accidentally. In “cancel culture” world, that concern is echoed by many. To those people, I offer this advice: always post consciously. Always speak from a place of kindness. Do your best. You are definitely, definitely, DEFINITELY going to f*** up at some point if you have not already. Every single one of us has and/or will. What matters, what gets you “cancelled” or not is how you respond to your mistake. Save cancellations for people who refuse to own up to their sh*t and improve. Accept criticism, apologize, and be better. If everyone just follows those rules, there will still be cancellations, but there will be much less drama.There’s also concern about how vulgar some of the jokes and language are that get thrown around with impunity by those who would still seek to cancel others. This point gets brought up to invalidate someone else being cancelled for what they see as less bad/not a big deal than what other people “get away with”. Context is key, is my answer to that. Obviously, there’s a difference between a girl calling her friend a bitch/whore in jest vs someone calling a girl those names out of the blue or in an argument, or if they are a stranger.Intent matters, but it also doesn’t. Your INTENT is worthless if your words were still received in a hurtful way. No amount of “But I didn’t mean it like that” will change how you were received. It shouldn’t have to. If your intention is to be careful, kind, and inclusive, then you will likely not end up in a situation where you harm someone. But if you do, and it was because of ignorance or some other accident, you have to act with that same care and kindness. You have to own your mistake, apologize, and improve. I’m still learning. I’m still growing. I’m still figuring out how to be a better ally and person in general. It doesn’t stop. But you know what? Only so much of that is going to happen in the stream. The real growth happens in the real world. Please don’t burn out your beautiful energy on some faces on a screen that are only out to upset you.

IM SO TIRED UGH

i want to CRY im so so s o sos sos so stressed bruh okay so this is the first week back - i had an exam today, and one tomorrow, and thats so overhwelming, because today was maths and tomorrow is my extension english essaymy essay isnt good and im so scared about it im stressed about maths because if i get a bad mark everybody will be like wtf you're emant to be good at maths and i'll SOBand i have an assignment due next monday and i have no idea when ill find time to do that and i'm going to have to miss one of my friend's birthdays and that makes me sa dbut like i have to do my assignment bruhim so stressedand i dont even ahve the time to take a good calm down break becauase i HAVENT EVEN TRIED HANDWITRITNG MY ESSAY YETahusdjwbefwguhjasnkejfwiht4ugrefjdakiefouwgryhefjkdwqoefiugrwyhfjekdim so sick of being a try hard nerd student .. please just let me not care about my grades for ONCE

i made friends with someone -12- on roblox becus they wanted help with a video but their mom called me and told me to block them ewigkhneisgk what- hun i aint a nonce- lmao ok

um hey guys so my piece of sh*t father wants to see me now that im 18 i guess i dont know but after all these f***in years i dont think id be able to see him in person without getting violent the idea of him dying gives me peace in a weird way i cant really explain it not that i care enough to kill him hes not worth going to jail for. i really dont give a sh*t about him its just the fact that he could of talk to me all these years but he choose not to and when he did call it was because his daughters wanted to talk to me saying that my sisters wanted to talk to me and id remind him i dont have siblings. apart from all that emo playlist be hittin when im breaking down well f*** i was doin so f***in good this is a big set back mentally f*** f*** f***f*** he never phases me i never cared that he left i was perfectly fine and never effected by it but now hes trying and im here crying barely breathing eyes swollen i dont even know why thats what angers me im mad at myself for letting him make me sad 

I wake up from some sort of late night nap and my feet are too cold. They hurt. The only reason I get up is the feeling of 'wanting something' and not knowing what. I found that instant oatmeal, undercooked, was enough to fill that what. I write a poem about anger although I am not angry currently. It perfectly describes what it's like to be that way, even without feeling it.I decide to make my first blog post in years. It is simple and plain and boring. No one will care. That's okay.I write another poem or two before going to place myself directly into the spot in the guest bed that I peeled myself from about half an hour earlier. This time though, I decide to bring a blanket.

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 Hey, this is Ayesha Erotica The world's number one coke whore You know! I came here to make one thing f***ing clear I can be your Lindsay Lohan, I can be Madonna (ugh) I could be your Marilyn Monroe, I can be Rihanna (ah) So call me Courtney Love, I'm your extra dose of drama  Your fans call you mother, but, bitch, my fans call me mama   (cunt!) I can give you Paris Hilton, I can give you Janet (uh-huh) I could give you Björk, but I don't think you'd understand it    I could give you sex doll, bitch, you love these legend lips!   And, baby, I could give you model with these double A-cup   tits, eeow! I'm popping, bitch, like TNT I'm in your head like PCP And boys, they love my A & T That's why I let them pee on me I still don't f*** in Cadillacs My p**sy tastes like Apple Jacks I'm looking gorgeous, looking sex Who made you hoes go back to crack? (me!)Ayesha come through in the Dior mini skirtNo bra, no panties, no time to flirtSee, I'm busy collecting gifts from my daddy in Connecticut (what?)Checking stores doing the thread that I couldn’t getRhinestone top, tits peeking outCause the party ain't hot till the cheeks is outCan't go another round, boy, squeeze it outAnd I ain’t do a damn thing till the cheese is out, no doubt Saw this boy at the mall last weekGot the kind of look to make me freakThat long ass hair, with the tightest jeansMy Chemical Romance on his teeHe looks so sick like he's was dyin’If I said he wasn't hot, then I'd be lyin’Please! Handsome, don't be coyCome on f*** me emo boy!

  cute survey!   how do you feel about peeling onions? dont like it makes me cry :"( who would win in a fight, you or God? cant win a fight against yourself look up misophonia, do you have it? yeah bro are you scared of leaving or scared that you will never leave? kind of both? imagine this. you are walking down a dirt path barefoot into a pine forest. the dark green trees fill the sky as you walk deeper into the woods. you hear footsteps behind you but keep walking. your heart rate quickens, and you finally turn around. what do you see? mother horse eyes if you were an omniscient glowing orb in the astral realm, what would you look like? lots of eyes and tendrils with constantly shifting colors emanating a low hum what goosebumps book or scary story to tell in the dark (or any children’s horror media) did you think about most as a kid? my little pony creepypasta unfortunately thats not a joke expose something about someone you know. jacques gf has a piss fetish he doesnt know about what’s the worst thing you ever tasted? cow sh*t :/ do you ever wish you could stick your fingers behind your eyes and touch your eye sockets? thinking about touching bone makes me gag because it makes me think about how bones only feel dry because theyre pours and sap the moisture from your skin when’s the last time you pooped in a public restroom? months ago idk if you had to replace your nipples with an extra pair of any body part, what would you choose? arms duh do you still watch vine compilations? be honest no ive seen them all have you ever had an incest dream? no??? what favorite candle scent? lavender or lemon there is a man in a room with a chair and a clock. the moon seems too big. the man cannot see this, however, we can. the man does not know he is watched. the room is stone gray and full of dust. the clock is slowing down. the man’s eyes notice this. they shine with fear, perhaps guilt. what will break first, the man or the clock? the man what’s the weirdest late night snack you’ve ever eaten? my own burnt flesh are you capable of truly hating? yes have you ever made your calculator say “boobies” in school? duh and finally, what’s your least favorite color? orange idk why its everywhere on this site it looks like a**hole  this survey is by yours truly, Jackie! my url is clowngirl567    :)  

my cat angelina has been missing for a couple days n she finally came home :"D i missed her so much n im so happy shes home safe. heres a pic of her from a while ago anyway ive been trying to work out more for a while but i havnt lately because ive been sad :) now i actually have motivation hehe :p i want to get swole so i can pick milo up n stuff lol https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VmtU-bLyReU&list=RDVmtU-bLyReU&start_radio=1heres the song im listening to as im writing this. its a banger n the singer is so aggressively british lmao

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4rPZ9L7sbGM

Ive been MIA because honesly i forgot this webiste was a thing but imm back sh*ts been hella crazy at work lately so all ive really had tme for is smoking and sleeping haha anyeays is there anything anyone wants to know?

AGGGGRRRHHHHH!!!!!!!!1111!!!! WHY CAN'T I JUST FIND A JOB AND WORK THERE?????!!! I ALREADY SENT LIKE 150 JOB APPLICATIONS AND THE ONLY PEOPLE RESPONDED TURNED OUT TO BE FRAUD

lmaoo. Hi! I'm back. I've been watching movies like Bratz, and Mean Girls. And now I've decided that I'm a bad bitch! Whether I'm alt, horny, or being a carbon copy of Regina George! (Someone send help. I'm actually loosing it)