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a fem with short hair Category: Real Life
Current mood:
curious
my whole life i have tried to detach my looks from my worth. being latina but not looking like the other latinas around me made me extremely insecure. i spent my whole life comparing myself, until last march i decided i was on a journey of breaking this unhealthy habit. my hair was what made me feel beautiful, i felt most beautiful when my long hair covered my face and flowed freely. so i chopped it off. suddenly all of these insecurities i faced before cutting my hair slapped me in the face. people in fact care about how you look, suddenly you become unapproachable. everything i feared would happen, everything i convicned myself was just some stupid irrational fear came true. though i cant say my relationship with the way i look has improved at all, i can confirm that people are superficial and have always been. i am currently growing my hair out because i guess deep down im a people pleaser.
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