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Why do mothers favor their sons?
This isn't one of those "I hate my mother" posts, I don't. Though this is that post where I question my mother. Though I feel like a bad daughter for questioning her, I'm questioning every mom who's like this. Why? Because I don't think this behaviour is okay. My mom favors my brothers more than my sister and I. Here's the thing, we're all legal adults so we all pay rent and bills. I clean the house and I buy groceries. My brother's don't really do that much. My eldest brother occasionally goes and fills up the water gallons for us, but sometimes he'll lag and I'll do that too. My eldest brother is 29, but we all pay the same amount of rent. Here's why that's a little frustrating for me. I share a room with my sister and my four year old niece and it's the smallest room. What? Granted my sister usually doesn't sleep the night now, but that does mean my space is not exactly huge. I went on tiktok and I went on the hispanic side of tiktok and realized that a lot of chicks were dealing with the same. The whole cleaning on your day off, having your mom baby your brothers, having stricter rules on you. Is this something that's common with only hispanics? I'm sure not. My community is hispanic so I don't really know people from other cultures and ethnicities. Who know's honestly. All I know is that it sucks. I'm not sure where I'm going with this, but I guess I wanted other chicks who are dealing with this to know that it sucks, but you're not alone dealing with this annoyance haha.
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family, women, favoritism, brothers, sisters, hispanic
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